What is Love

Q:what is love?

A:Love is not an action. it is our very nature.However it is love that brings all the problems in the world!
Greed , anger and jeolousy are all distortions of love. When love comes with knowledge, there are no distortions.

Q:What is the difference between unconditional and conditional love?

A:Conditional love is like business!
"If you do things the way i like them, then i will love you!"- this is conditional love. However your likes and dislikes change.
Unconditional love is accepting that "everything is changing".Inspite of these changes, unconditional love remains intact.

Q:Doesn't love and the expectation which comes with it cause stress?

A:There can be many causes of stress , but self knowledge and meditation can eliminate them.

Q:Why is it that people we love the most hurt us the most?

A:Hurt is a part of love. when u accept this, love takes on a new dimension,and you go beyond hurt ,pain and other negative emotions.

Q:How do you deal with the situation where you love someone and you are not loved back?

A:Its a challenge!
Your love is not dependent on their love.Love is not a business!Ilove you because i have no choice but to love!Love is not an action. it is a state!Either you
express love in its natural form, or its opposites(like jeolusy, greed and hatred)get formed.

Q:What are the signs of love?

A:When you love someone, you dont see anything wrong in him or her.
even if you see fault in them, you justify the fault and say," Well everyone does it!its normal." You think you have not done enough for them.The more you do the more you want to do for them. They are always in your mind.
Ordinary things become extraordinary!(for eg, a baby winking at its grand mother)
You want them to be yours exclusively, When you love someone , you want to see them happy,and you want them to have the best.